The internet these days is
getting scarier with people posting too much information about
themselves on social media. I am not saying that all social media
platforms are bad, but if we share too much, there MIGHT be
consequences.
Years ago, I was a very
very very naive girl when I first came to Kuala Lumpur. I was a budak
kampung from Taiping, who didn’t know how scary the world was.
I remember FRIENDSTER was one of the very first social media I was
on. I was so stupid that I actually put my real address on my profile
and even worse, my car number plate. Yup, that’s how stupid I was.
Luckily, it was my elder brother who asked me to remove it ASAP (I
seriously don’t know what I was thinking). I also liked to share
where I was, what I was doing at the time - and one day, I met with
an unlucky incident.
You see, at that time, I
had a college mate renting one of the rooms in my condo for a 2-month
period. He was very nice, and I thought nothing could go WRONG. He
was my college mate and we had a few classes together. I remember,
that time, I was sharing a photo of where I was (which was Penang) on
Friendster and he saw it. He then called me, asking me how was Penang
and all, as if he was making sure that I was in Penang. Everything
was fine until he moved out and someone online messaged me through
Friendster, showing me a link.
It turns outs that my
college mate was selling my bra online because there was a demand.
LOL. At first I freaked out, because I realized it was the same day
when I posted that I was in Penang. That very same day, he actually
stole a couple of my bras/bikini and sold them online. I was shocked,
but it was quickly settled. What scares me the most is that
particular website. They were selling girls’ bras! They even have
this community where they go and hunt for girls’ lingerie if they
live in a housing area. Now, that is creepy. So many sick people!
Imagine you are home alone, and you posted your LOCATION online
saying, ‘my parents went for a holiday, I am eating dinner
alone’. Can you imagine what can happen? Whatever you’re
thinking right there, IT CAN HAPPEN. No joke. So please, be wise
with what you post/share. You never know who is watching you.
Another incident happened
again, ahhahhaha I know, why is Michelle’s life so dramatic
right? A friend messaged me on Facebook, telling me that this website
is posting my pictures. Apparently, someone created a fake profile
about me and was asking people to meet me, or worst, to masturbate on
my picture. I was like WOAHHH, who hates me so much until they want
to do this? This person basically stole my Facebook pictures and
asked people to do nasty stuff, and later on, you know what? I found
out it was the same guy who stole my bra.
That guy was really
unafraid, even after the police arrested him the first time – I
didn’t press charges because he was still young and I didn’t want
to ruin his future, and now he’s doing this to me, again? I quickly
made a police report and went to MCMC
to ask them to block that particular website. They were so helpful,
and with their help and swift action, the website and user profile
were both blocked. Thank you, MCMC.
I went online to try to
find this guy but his name couldn’t be found anymore. I was
determined, and after a while, I finally managed to find him. He had
changed his name to his son’s name. YUP, HE HAS A SON NOW and is
MARRIED. I was SHOCKED. I wanted to press charges, I really wanted
to, but he has a family now and I don’t want to be the one to ruin
his family (especially when I am a mother myself). So I just kept it
all to myself. If you are that guy, reading this now - please just
stop what you do and concentrate on your family. Don’t do all this
nasty stuff.
Many of you may question
me - why don’t you just press charges so that his wife and kids
will know about this and you can warn all the other girls?
Well, the fake profile was
probably created while he was single, I assume this because of the
dates of the website being created and he being married with a kid
was about 2 years apart. So I just hope that he will sedar diri
after he had his son.
Family
is most important to me. Honestly, although I am a blogger, I don’t
share that much. For example, I don’t share Mika’s favourite song
or his real weight or height..or even the actual time he was born.
Sometimes I am worried he might get kidnapped too if I overshared too
much information. It’s only natural for a mother to worry.
Having learnt from my own
experience, I honestly don’t share as much as I used to. In present
time, I may eat in many places but I don’t shout on social media as
much anymore. Now, I prefer to enjoy the moment, my food and talk to
my friends. Though of course, sometimes I do upload for keep sake and
for good memories.
I hope the coming
generation will use the internet wisely. Don’t overshare. Protect
yourself. Keep it private. Watch the movie: “The Bling Ring”,
it’s about people robbing Paris Hilton’s house after she checked
in at some location via her social media.
Klik dengan bijak, people!
Think before you click or it might ruin your life because once it’s
on the internet, it would be forever there. There are many creepers
out there, it could even be your friend sitting next to you. Beware
of what you share.
Learn how to protect
yourself here:
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